Problems…
So, recently, my parents have stopped talking to each other. They got mad at each other and now they pretty much don’t talk.
My dad came home from work one night, really late and it bothered my mom. So she asked where had he been. He said he went to have some drinks with his co-workers. My mom asked if he couldn’t call to let her know he was going to be out late. He said yeah he could have but didn’t. So of course my mom got pissed.
Well generally you would think that a small little fight like that would end in a few days. I’d say about two at the very most. Well, this was pretty much the final straw for my mom. She really didn’t appreciate the fact that he’s always ignoring her or treating her like shit, but then one of his employees call, mind you he has female employees, he’s always there talking and making sure everythings good.
So today, we finally ganged up on my mom & we found out what was really wrong. And now we have to go over and gang up on my dad. I just can’t believe that he’s being such a jerk. Why wouldn’t he apologize and get it over with? All I know is that they better not divorce because that’s not an option. I’m not having it & I’m sure my sisters aren’t going to allow it either.
At one point my mom thought my dad MIGHT be having an affair, of course he’s not, she says but idk. All I know is that he better watch it because if I find out any of this shit is true, I will more then like beat my dad at the least. I don’t care what happens, he better watch it.
Ugh! But I’m just…I want to cry but I can’t because I’m too mad. What do I do? Give me some input! Thanks for letting me vent a little.
Prince_Basil
I say let them sort it out, but you can talk to them separately and give them a little nudge towards resolving things with them…
I have talked to my mother. She told us all, (me & my two sisters), what’s been happening. She started crying & everything. My dad though, I haven’t been able to. He’s very intimitating. I’m scared. =( Thanks though. I appreciate it!
All I can say is advice from my personal experience. If your parents end up wanting a divorce then there isn’t much you or your sisters can do about it. I mean something like that is best left up to them because if they decide not to be together then you guys forcing them to stay together could make things worse. I just say leave it it be and let them deal. You may get mad at your dad for the way he’s acting but you aren’t always around when it’s just your mom and your dad so you never fully can understand the situation.